Forgive and Forgo

Anas ibn Malik reported: We were sitting with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “Coming upon you now is a man from the people of Paradise.” A man from the Ansar came whose beard was disheveled by the water of ablution and he was carrying both of his shoes with his left hand. The next day the Prophet repeated the same words, and the man came in the same condition. The third day the Prophet repeated the same again, and the man came in the same condition. When the Prophet stood up to leave, Abdullah ibn Amr followed the man and he said, “I am in a dispute with my father, and I have sworn not to enter my home for three days. May I stay with you?” The man said yes. Abdullah stayed three nights with the man, but he never saw him praying at night. Whenever he went to bed, he would remember Allah and rest until he woke up for morning prayer. Abdullah said that he never heard anything but good words from his mouth. When three nights had passed, and Abdullah did not see anything special about his actions, Abdullah asked him, “O servant of Allah, I have not been in dispute with my father nor have I cut relations with him. I heard the Prophet say three times that a man from the people of Paradise was coming to us and then you came. I thought I should stay with you to see what you are doing that I should follow, but I did not see you do anything special. Why did the Prophet speak highly of you?” The man said, “I am as you have seen.” When Abdullah was about to leave, the man said, “I am as you have seen, except that I do not find dishonesty in my soul towards the Muslims and I do not envy anyone because of the good that Allah has given them.”

In the hadith above, it is very clearly illustrated the importance of the forgiveness we Muslims should exercise with one another. Grudges seem to be more prevalent now more than ever, especially now that derogatory remarks can be made online without a second thought. But we must keep in mind that compassion for others is indeed a heavily emphasized notion in Islam. As Allah says in ayah 22 of Surat Nur, “...let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you?”

(Hadith: https://abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2011/11/23/hadith-on-envy-the-man-went-to-paradise-because-he-purified-his-heart-from-malice-and-envy/)

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